Charlestown Blues: Selected Poems, a Bilingual Edition gTed and molded intoood people But he loved us He was consistent He played with us We just learned or tried to learn not to push his buttons Keele s father was self righteous vindictive and mean Her mother read frightened and submissive Keele "acted out rebelled and ot kicked out she "out rebelled and ot kicked out She years self abusing and hating herself until she ended up at a remote retreat center where she was forced to reckon with her anger and hatred This book is a
read But it me think something When I was a kid and things were bad at my house and my parents were yelling and screaming at us at the tops of their lungs and saying awful things why didn t anyone ever say something or come to our rescue Maybe it was because worse things were uietly Bright College Years going on in other houses Totally engrossing but there s just too little resolution for the reader Researching the author after the fact it seems sheoes on to do absolutely incredible things which prove the most amazing self rowth and healing But how How does she leave Toronto and accomplish all these things with no family or money Does she ever meet up with her siblings again Why does she take her son to meet her father Did she ever make amends with Logan What happened to "Grace There are just so many holes that make it a struggle to have closure I kudos "There are just so many holes that make it a struggle to have closure I kudos author for sharing her horrible tale and hope she publishes an after note with some answers This was an First reads for MarchThis was such an odd reading experience on the one hand shocking descriptions of abuse leading to addiction and self destructive behaviour on the other all the characters including the narrator are so one dimensional large parts of the book don t ring uite trueI couldn t et a Cezanne and Provence: The Painter in His Culture grip of her family was she the only child being abused and if so why Why were the parents ok with the daughtersoing to parties but not with her wearing jeans Has the author come to any kind of understanding of her family dynamics One specific episode that bothered me was after she Chicago's Urban Nature: A Guide to the City's Architecture + Landscape gets arrested for having a party in the neighbours house her punishment is confinement to the pool house So a legitimate crime she was actually arrested forets this soft treatment while wearing jeans ets her beaten with a stick Not saying it didn t happen this way but some kind of explanation would have been interestingAnd how did such a controlling family agree to send her away to college with no supervisionI. NBut when the time came to escape she found herself in a damaging spiral of self destruction At rock bottom and with nowhere to o Kathleen stepped off a bus in the last place she ever thought she’d find peace a remote and very Catholic community Spending a year in almost complete silence Kathleen feared this experience would prove to be just anothe. ,Tough Read But It
TRIGGER WARNING Detailed descriptions of child abuse and rape If these are triggers for you think twice before reading this bookThis book was extremely frustrating to read I understand This was a difficult read and left me with too many uestionswhy why why I found it ironic that she ran away from the abuse in one cult why why I found it ironic that she ran away from the abuse in one cult only then find herself seeking help in another I do understand everyone has their own journey and Kathleen s journey was a tragic onevery tragic I m iving 25 "stars for the unclear writing and lack of connecting the dots This "for the unclear writing and lack of connecting the dots This an unbelievable story of survival Kathleen if you were "HERE RIGHT NOW I D HUG THE HECK OUT "right now I d hug the heck out you I wouldn t speak just hug because I have no words Again unbelievable There aren t enough words to describe Kathleen s father Mean Too small a word Cruel Nope not big enough Heartless If this were fiction I d say C mon that would never happen But it s non fiction and it did happen It s just incredibly cruel that a parent a dad could inflict so much pain on their child Kathleen s story is remarkable Congratulations That s all I ll say since I don t want to include a Spoiler Congratulations on surviving and living Thank you Ms Burgin for allowing me to read this very raw and honest memoir that reveals limpses into your life a life that I cannot even imagine i was caught up in this book from page one i read it in 2 days took my kindle to bed with me reading page after page under the covers fell asleep with it put most of life on hold today and just finished it i saw so much of myself in her wordsi admit as others have reviewed and stated that there are so many parts of her story left unknowing but those are her memories stories and nightmares i m sure they will make it to print for our hungry eyes at some point but that s what i like about her her random bits of reflection and which layers of the onion she decides to peel back for us when i was reading her first moments of abuse i noticed my body flush and my heart start to race i was carrying the anxiety in me thru her thru me it made me feel than i thought 5 stars all day all night long bravo for a brave womans voice thru vulnerability i appreciate it Keele Burgin went through a childhood that made mine look like 18 years at Disney World My father was an authoritarian Catholic man who always had to be right and we children were little bundles of Original Sin that needed to be correc. Sometimes all that it takes to start over is the courage to say you willIn Kathleen’s home red jeans were a sin Parties were punishable with violence Fear was part of the daily norm Growing up in a Catholic cult under the unforgiving eye of her abusive father Kathleen knew from an early age that if she were to survive she’d have to do it on her ow.
Free download ë eBook, PDF or Kindle ePUB ë Keele BurginAlso didn t understand why she later chose to enter a different cult like environment Did she really overcome addiction by "doing laundry in silence and being locked up in a cabin in the woods After "laundry in silence and being locked up in a cabin in the woods After outburst with the priest I expected some kind of revelation that she was just running from one oppressive religion to another but instead this is what shows her the way forwardAnd why did her father never contact her to bring her back into the fold before she went to live in the Madonna House How did he even know he would find her thereUltimately a somewhat interesting read but it left me with too many unanswered uestions Free from as part of the March First ReadsThe depictions of abuse are seriously rough and Kathleen s destructive behavior in the second section of the book is tough to watch But overall it s an uneven book How did she Communism grow her life after leaving Madonna House What is her current relationship with Shirley With her siblings Her parentsI read the acknowledgements just to see if there was some mention of her current life and if I could ascertain anythingHow did you make it out How do you live now ARGH So many uestions This was my First Reads pick for the month of MarchI m honestly not sure how to feel about this book On one hand it was an engrossing story thatrabbed onto me and didn t want to let me How to Read the American City Close Up go until I finished it On the other hand there was so much self destruction and bouncing from one to cult to what sounded like another that I found myselfetting annoyed Reading about her rowing up was hard because she had no control over that Reading about her adult years was also hard because she did At the end
*i felt like we were told a half *felt like we were told a half A story about a horrible childhood that turned into a dreadful adulthood with many uestions left unanswered I m lad that it sounds like she finally found peace I just wish she would have let us into that part of her life like she did the rest of it This is a Consumed: Food for a Finite Planet gripping memoir and I read it in about 24 hours The abuse trauma and self destruction Kathleen Burgin writes about is vivid and shockingThe struggle for me is that it all feels a bit disjointed It s storytelling without a resolution I want to know how she moved from one phase of her life to the next how she became an author why she cut off ties with her whole family etc I m not looking for a happy ending necessarily but just some type of closure on the story. R step in her unraveling Instead with her demons uieted she emerged with a fresh understanding of self an empowering new purpose and a sense of worthiness that she would never let be challenged again Wholly Unraveled is Keele Burgin’sripping and inspiring journey of self discovery and of finally finding her voice against nearly insurmountable odds.